Friday, April 18, 2014

The Power Of Forgiveness

Today,  when I was shuffling along the pages of  Yahoo,  I  found  a moving story. 

In Iran, there was a murderer, who was judged to be  hanged, becasue he had killed a 19 year old youth in a street-fight back in 2007.  Today,  the  family of  the killed  youth should have  been given  a satisfaction  -  blood for blood after all,  but in a  stunning and  unexpected  turn of events they did...

Nothing.

Well, not  exactly nothing, but  the mother of  the murdered victim  did  halt the execution, slap the  accused and then pleaded that he should  be left to live.   The mother's  gesture left me in awe, becasue  Iran is islamic, and  their prophet Mohamed  had  approved of the  'eye for an eye' law.   Even if  nowadays it's thought barbaric,   and used only in extreme cases,  death penalty still exists.  Civilized countries  want to abolish it, and they   had succeeded to some degree, but  islamic countries  are led by different hand of justice.  There,  blood revenges are  accepted as  usual practice, and  so this  happening is  so much more unusual.

I am not a parent, but I can imagine how hard is for  a mother to lose  her child -  one of my schoolmates had done a suicide, and  it was heartbreaking to hear her  ask why had her daughter done suicide when at funeral. There's always left a deep, gaping hole, no matter if  the child  has done  suicide, been killed in self defense or in war.  By all rights,  this Iranian mother should have been vengeful and demand the  worst of the tortures for the murderer who left her bereft of  her precious child, and yet,  she chose not to.   She chose to show mercy, to plead for the murderer to be let go.   Of course, if  we wanted to be cynic,   we can attribute  the mercy to the public outcry of Iranian women and  public who pleaded  mercy for  the murderer, but  the last decision was still in the hands of the family of the victim's family.   How easier would it be to just let the murderer pay for his misdeed, to see him hang from the gallows, and yet....

The ones we call  Islamists, Mohamed's followers,   the ones who  still have such a strict code,  they  have spoken out, declaring mercy. What does that say about us, Christians, who are  sometimes squabbling about the tiniest of things?  It makes me ashamed  that  Christianity propagates mercy, and  yet, it's so rarely  shown. Our  greatest feast is nearing,  and instead of  contemplating the mercy we were gifted with, we contemplate chocolate eggs,  what we will eat  and so on and so forth!  For  Islamists,  our feast  means nothing,  so it's even more amazing they  have done the act of mercy in the days that follow to the Easter.

How different would the world be, if  the  people, who asked to release a murderer, would have asked for  releasing Jesus?  It's illogical, that  the  crowd  would rather have had  a certified  wrongdoer  released than an  innocent man. If we shall believe the Bible, that was intended to happen and yet, it makes  for a bitter taste in the mouth, reading  about such  travesty.

Was it wrong to show  a mercy to  the killer?  Cynics would say yes.  Jesus would say no.  He was the one who  advocated for mercy, even for his enemies.  One old proverb says, that eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.  Sometimes, mercy isn't the right answer.  However, there are moments when  it's a saving grace that resonates within the sinner's soul.   And I believe that  this little act of mercy resonated within the murderer's soul.  There's not many things that could affect the  man  so hard as  to escape the sure death, even more so,  if by mercy.

We all are innocent and  sinners at the same time. We can  abide  by the code of revenge or  the code of mercy.   It's our decision which one   we will chose,  and  for me, I am glad  this one   family has shown  that despite the pain and adversity,  it's still possible to  chose mercy.   And for that, I thank them from the bottom of my heart.

Thank you, Samereh Alinejad. Thank you, Abdolgani Hosseinzadeh.  Thank you,  little daughter.   May you be blessed.

Eirenei

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